My time volunteering has come to a close. I can't believe how fast it's gone and yet I'm very ready to move onward. I'll still be travelling a bit more before starting up my own clinic in Chatham, NY, but I am eager to serve the people, in particular women, there. In preparation to do so, I want to reflect a bit on the women of Nepal.
As I've mentioned before, life here is rough. Unfortunately, it's rougher on women than it is on men due to male-preferred culture. Boys are preferred over girls because boys stay in the family home and continue the family business. Girls get married off in an arranged marriage (love marriages are still rare in Nepal) and move into the husband's home. Since the males stay in the family, there is a stronger tendency to put resources into them; namely education. Luckily, things are changing and more and more women are growing up educated, but it is still largely disproportionate. Since boys are busy getting educated, girls are expected to do work around the house from a young age, and are constantly busy. Since the boys spend 6 days a week in school, the are not part of the 'chore wheel' and when they have a day off from school, it's truly a day off.
Since women are married young, they also have a very long time in which they have to manage their reproductive years. It's great that the general population is being educated on the benefits of having fewer babies, but there aren't a whole lot of options in terms of reproductive control. Most women opt to use Depo shots--which completely stops menstruation--which is donated by the US government. I'm not a huge fan of any of the hormonal reproductive control options, but to stop menstruation by high doses of hormones is the worst of the bunch. Of course, it's better than having 10 or 15 babies.
I've also noticed that postpartum Nepali women have significantly more abdominal stretching, even at a young age, than western women. I've discussed this with the other acupuncture volunteer and we suspect that this is due to the low-protein diet--less elastin in the skin. Nepali women often wear long pieces of fabric wrapped around and around their abdomen postpartum onward, possibly to help hold their organs in place!
While most of my patients are older, I feel very fortunate that I've had the opportunity to help some younger women as well, and help them avoid a lifetime of pain. I recently had patient age 23, postpartum with uterus prolapse. While prolapse is rare in someone so young--and rectal prolapse is more common than uterine postpartum--it can occur based on where the baby's head pressed into the vaginal wall on it's way down the birth canal. Some muscles are weakened by the pressure, and then prolapse can occur. She came in not for the prolapse itself, but because the pain in her abdomen was interfering with her ability to do farm work. I was able to do both internal pelvic care (I've been trained by Tami Kent in Portland) and acupuncture with her. I don't know how to assess uterus prolapse, but her pain has been greatly reduced! I'm so happy to have been able to serve her and many other women like her.
Some of my non-English speaking lady friends in the village! The grandma on right is super awesome. |
| Me and our 'retired' clinic blood pathologist She still has a full day of work in her home! |
| Nepali homes are big; because they house a lot of people! That means a lot of laundry.... |
While most of my patients are older, I feel very fortunate that I've had the opportunity to help some younger women as well, and help them avoid a lifetime of pain. I recently had patient age 23, postpartum with uterus prolapse. While prolapse is rare in someone so young--and rectal prolapse is more common than uterine postpartum--it can occur based on where the baby's head pressed into the vaginal wall on it's way down the birth canal. Some muscles are weakened by the pressure, and then prolapse can occur. She came in not for the prolapse itself, but because the pain in her abdomen was interfering with her ability to do farm work. I was able to do both internal pelvic care (I've been trained by Tami Kent in Portland) and acupuncture with her. I don't know how to assess uterus prolapse, but her pain has been greatly reduced! I'm so happy to have been able to serve her and many other women like her.